Mental Health Notes

Resources To Protect Yourself Against Cyberbullying

by Alicia Sparks, Mental Health Notes on May 16th, 2008

Last night I wrote about Lori Drew’s indictment on charges related to Megan Meier’s suicide. While no on has been convicted of anything yet, and Drew denies creating the MySpace account as well as sending Meier messages, the fact remains that someone committed a horrible offense against this girl - one that may have ultimately led to her death.

Megan Meier didn’t know she was the victim of cyberbullying. She didn’t know she was on the receiving end of online harassment. Like many people (trusting and innocent youngsters especially), Megan really believed the person talking to her online really was who “he” said “he” was - a 16-year-old boy named Josh.

In any event, Megan’s suicide is a very extreme - and very real - consequence of cyberbullying.

I think now is as good a time as any to point you in the direction of resources to protect yourself, your children, and your friends from online harassment.

1. By Parents-For Parents dedicates a section of their Web site to tips on how to protect against online harassment. Cyber-Bullies: What You Need to Know to Protect Your Daughter may have “daughter” in the title, but let’s not be naive. Sons are just as at risk as daughters. The article offers suggestions on watching for warning signs, establishing boundaries, encouraging communication, developing a response plan, and teaming up with members of the community.
2. WiredSafety claims to be “the world’s largest Internet safety and help group,” and it definitely offers a wealth of information for parents, teachers, law enforcement, and kids. Check out WiredSafety’s frequently asked questions about cyberstalking and harassment, and then check out their free online courses. WiredSafety is also affiliated with WiredKids, Net Bullies, and Stop Cyberbullying.
3. The Educational CyberPlayground dedicates a page of resources regarding cyberbullying, including informational videos, privacy rights, and a slew of articles.
4. The 2learn.ca Education Society presents “‘Net Know-How,” which includes on overview on cyberbullying as well as resources for students, parents, and teachers.
5. And finally, the National Crime Prevention Council offers up an entire cyberbullying campaign complete with public service announcements, tips to prevent cyberbullying and stay safe, and free banners you can use on your own Web sites.

Do you have any experiences with cyberbullies and online harassment? How did you handle it?

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